Why worry till sick? Why think negative and being negative?

I used to tell my folks..
Why worry till sick?
Why predict those negative?
Why think and  re-think..
negative and being negative?

When we were toddlers..
We knew almost nothing..
When we were at school..
We were hurrying n reading..
blur most of the time wasting...

When we start meeting people...
Liking and disliking many people..
In love and falling out of love..
Such immature yet maturing love..
Time speeding and gone without a trace..

Then we really settled for good.
And start a brand new life..
With someone from the other world..
And started working and reproducing..
Adding more of our flesh and bones..

Those years of tedious home and house work..
Those years of cradle and candle lighting..
Those years of damp pampers and pampering..
Those years of hot spice and cold colds..
Those years of mess and comprehending..

Then they grow into adolescence..
Demanding lots and attending to their needs...
As swiftly as time has come it vanished..
As swiftly as grey hair replacing the black..
Realizing then some tooth has gone forever.. 

Reflecting and reviewing..
Refreshing and remembering..
No stage of life is too perfect..
No stage of life has been bed of roses..
And till then, where the time to think and re-think?

What have we done and gotten?
When have we stopped to revive the forgotten?
Where have we braced ourselves to face life?
Life isn't a rehearsal that we come twice..
Think deep.. deeply enough to be conscious..

Of one important thing.. to rethink..
If we have not sprinkled love..
If we have not adjusted to love..
If we have not gotten into falling in love..
Not a day would be worth reflecting...

And because it is love..
Because it is caring and loving..
We know we should never spent time..
Or wasting time over excessive worrying..
And forgotten joy and love and true loving...

My dears.. there are no fast rules or ways..
Or secrets or regulations as how to be happy..
Or to tell and advise you when to be happy..
With or without reasons to being happy..
Choosing to be or not to be happier..

If as a toddler, we know how to laugh out loud..
If as a toddler, we know how to scream joys loud..
Why should we waste our precious stages
of life over excessive worrying and being unhappy???
Why waste our whole life worrying till sick or unhappy???

Is that what you really wanted?
To spend those precious moments of now and then..
To be in such a too bad mood and incessant worrying?
No .. no... no... That's not what we came for now and then..
WAKE UP.. WAKE UP.. be aware and to be of YOUR GOOD SELF..

So, stop worrying...yes, stop immediately.. stop worrying
You are not going to waste your whole life worrying..
It's not worth a single dime...not worth a single line..
Wasting your whole life, with such bleak useless future..
Oh, my dear.. then you better exist as wood for my furniture..